Necratoid Wrote:-The problem with a 2 male and 2 female relationship or more is that they get so into themselves the less the pay attention to their offspring. Which means even if adult relationship is 'perfect' the kids are neglected basically by default. That or worse they end up raised by a swingers collective. The more people involved the more likely the kid will have no clue who his or her blood parents are. Now ignoring just how warped or just plain screwed up these kids are going to be and what other kids are going to treat them like when a question of who their parents are get "Umm... someone that lives on that block over there."Having experienced more or less the discussed scenario from the kid's end, and seen and spoken with others likewise, I can explicitly and uncategorically debunk this nonsense. Bad parenting is bad parenting, and good parenting is good parenting, and the number of adults involved in either is irrelevant or, in fact, beneficial to see in larger groups because of the greater number of chances that someone responsible having the needed time and energy to spare at any given point.
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"V, did you do something foolish?"
"Yes, and it was glorious."