I used to be a player of 'The Game' (Patient/Psychiatrist) and I can say without a doubt, the biggest factor that helps in the healing process is
communication, and listening. REALLY listening.
The difference between the doctor and us is that we can be funny, and you can suffer through our opinions. The doctor is listening for clues and holes in your
conversations and will point them out in a diplomatic manner as well as help you piece together the clues to a realization and move forward from there.
I meant no disrespect with my comment before, but I also agree with Bob as well. Heck, in the long run (if you decide to keep him) it'll show him how to
listen to you and teach him to communicate with you more effectively. Communication = More Trust. More Trust = Better Intimacy. Better Intimacy = Great Sex!!
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DEATH is Certain. The hour, Uncertain...
communication, and listening. REALLY listening.
The difference between the doctor and us is that we can be funny, and you can suffer through our opinions. The doctor is listening for clues and holes in your
conversations and will point them out in a diplomatic manner as well as help you piece together the clues to a realization and move forward from there.
I meant no disrespect with my comment before, but I also agree with Bob as well. Heck, in the long run (if you decide to keep him) it'll show him how to
listen to you and teach him to communicate with you more effectively. Communication = More Trust. More Trust = Better Intimacy. Better Intimacy = Great Sex!!
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DEATH is Certain. The hour, Uncertain...