So, just to be clear I understand, none of the history excuses her actions - and I'm therefore I'm still correct in stopping long distance communication?
This is especially relevant in view of the fact that as she's made clear that she believes anything not said in person can be considered 'speculative' and therefore ignored as convenient...? It kinda shocked me because I had repeatedly made clear over many years that I don't falsely represent - me on line/off line is the same. And she assured me she felt the same.
My parents keep telling me 'Being abused does not give you the right to abuse others' and so what's happened to her does not excuse her behavior to the one person who's stuck by her all this time. But I keep feeling like I've broken my promises to stand by her. I know it's stupid when she's the one that's voided everything, but I keep feeling like I've let her down regardless.
Does anyone think there are there any other reasonable options left that I haven't seen - apart from letting her cop the fallout from her actions without support? I don't see any...
This is especially relevant in view of the fact that as she's made clear that she believes anything not said in person can be considered 'speculative' and therefore ignored as convenient...? It kinda shocked me because I had repeatedly made clear over many years that I don't falsely represent - me on line/off line is the same. And she assured me she felt the same.
My parents keep telling me 'Being abused does not give you the right to abuse others' and so what's happened to her does not excuse her behavior to the one person who's stuck by her all this time. But I keep feeling like I've broken my promises to stand by her. I know it's stupid when she's the one that's voided everything, but I keep feeling like I've let her down regardless.
Does anyone think there are there any other reasonable options left that I haven't seen - apart from letting her cop the fallout from her actions without support? I don't see any...