Oh, I'll be taking one or two mementos specifically... what's really hard is that we do need to help clear the place out, so I'll likely be taking some other stuff as well so that the person (his girlfriend, yes, there will be copious hugs dispensed while we're there since she's as much part of the "family" as he is) coordinating it all doesn't have to worry about as much. It'll all be stuff that we can use here anyway. I share a couple of hobbies with him, so that will be part of what I'll be paying attention to.
Ebony: I had a similar D&D style reference going through my head regarding, "meat isn't even cold yet, and we're already going through his things." It actually helps to know I'm not alone in such dark thinking. And each time I'm asked to visit the question, I have real trouble sleeping. Thankfully we're going over Saturday, and not doing anything on Sunday, so I won't be a wreck at work.
DHBirr: If I could wave a magic wand and be that kind of awesome, I would. (Probably a sign when you speak highly of such an act that he knows both of you well enough to take it.) As it is, I'll settle for taking probably more than I should so she's not dealing with it.
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"You know how parents tell you everything's going to fine, but you know they're lying to make you feel better? Everything's going to be fine." - The Doctor
Ebony: I had a similar D&D style reference going through my head regarding, "meat isn't even cold yet, and we're already going through his things." It actually helps to know I'm not alone in such dark thinking. And each time I'm asked to visit the question, I have real trouble sleeping. Thankfully we're going over Saturday, and not doing anything on Sunday, so I won't be a wreck at work.
DHBirr: If I could wave a magic wand and be that kind of awesome, I would. (Probably a sign when you speak highly of such an act that he knows both of you well enough to take it.) As it is, I'll settle for taking probably more than I should so she's not dealing with it.
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"You know how parents tell you everything's going to fine, but you know they're lying to make you feel better? Everything's going to be fine." - The Doctor