Quite frankly, I try to make no assumptions about the gender of people I talk with online unless they come out and say so. Far as I could tell, 'J' could stand for "Julia" as easily as "James".
So, yeah, like the others: Congrats. Live free, be yourself, and don't let any fuckwit tell you otherwise.
So, yeah, like the others: Congrats. Live free, be yourself, and don't let any fuckwit tell you otherwise.