A personal matter: revenge and bittersweet

[His Lovely Wife]

I'll second Morganni's question and add my own thoughts.
It's all well and good to talk about doing things like that to a guy who dumped you because he's an idiot, but the best revenge is finding someone who actually loves you, treats you well, and respects you, and start dating/seeing them. The revenge part is accidently or accidently on purpose meeting the ex in a public place like the mall, or a theater (it was a movie screening in my case) and introducing them to the new beau.
Trust me, THAT is the best revenge.
-Cindy-