There's no blame to be had, Terr. I laid every buff I had on Dren, just like I do with any tank Rhea is guarding who's going to be getting intimate with Recluse. His burst damage was just too much. Dren's build is simply not Recluse-tanking material -- yet. As I pointed out last night, this marks Rhea's seventh successful STF out of nine attempts; all but one of the other successes were with Stone tanks, and even then, they required empath support. You've got about five hojillion inf sunk into Terr's build, which gives him a bit of an edge, you have to admit. 
But, regardless. Whenever I STF, whoever is on Recluse gets my full attention, and I laid Clear Mind, Fortitude, Adrenaline Boost, Recovery Aura and Regeneration Aura on Dren, same as you (once they came back after Rhea faceplanted). I also stay in range so what little bit that Manuevers provides can help. Recluse just hits so damn hard while all four towers are up that all he has to do is connect and most tanks will be flatlined. I don't know Dren's build, but I'll bet where it differs from yours is in the resists. Because both of you got hit, but Recluse did less damage to you. Not much less, mind you. But a little. Just enough to leave you alive instead of squishing you (and you were mighty quick on them green insps, too -- you were getting health back before I managed to get back in range after than huge knockback )
--sofaspud
--"Listening to your kid is the audio equivalent of a Salvador Dali painting, Spud." --OpMegs
But, regardless. Whenever I STF, whoever is on Recluse gets my full attention, and I laid Clear Mind, Fortitude, Adrenaline Boost, Recovery Aura and Regeneration Aura on Dren, same as you (once they came back after Rhea faceplanted). I also stay in range so what little bit that Manuevers provides can help. Recluse just hits so damn hard while all four towers are up that all he has to do is connect and most tanks will be flatlined. I don't know Dren's build, but I'll bet where it differs from yours is in the resists. Because both of you got hit, but Recluse did less damage to you. Not much less, mind you. But a little. Just enough to leave you alive instead of squishing you (and you were mighty quick on them green insps, too -- you were getting health back before I managed to get back in range after than huge knockback
)--sofaspud
--"Listening to your kid is the audio equivalent of a Salvador Dali painting, Spud." --OpMegs