I would say that, in this case, avoid hammering on the gender thing at all with Amanda/LP. They might be one and the same, but there's so much else to hammer on them about at this point, it would be at best potential salt in the wounds. At worst, someone else would come in here and determine this forum is too toxic for them.
Do hammer on them about the idea of sockpuppetting, though. Just, if they've stated a gender, use that, or avoid the use of pronouns entirely.
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"You know how parents tell you everything's going to fine, but you know they're lying to make you feel better? Everything's going to be fine." - The Doctor
Do hammer on them about the idea of sockpuppetting, though. Just, if they've stated a gender, use that, or avoid the use of pronouns entirely.
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"You know how parents tell you everything's going to fine, but you know they're lying to make you feel better? Everything's going to be fine." - The Doctor